“Life is too short to stress yourself with people who don’t even deserve to be an issue.”
This blog will come from the heart, not because I have been in this situation, but only because woman deal with this issue each and every day. It is one of the biggest problems we women have to face, trust issues; because of the men in our lives will decide to deal with other women instead of facing the problems at hand. We tend to get discouraged, depressed and even mad as hell because the main question that we have in mind is WHY DO MEN CHEAT?
According to Redbook magazine, 48% of men rated emotional dissatisfaction as the primary reason they cheated. Men may feel like their women are not making them happy or they may feel that are being ignored. Instead of having a conversation with their mate, they will go find comfort elsewhere. There is no one set answer as into why men decide to hurt the one’s that they love, but they do it so much it almost becomes second nature to them.
In today’s society, being FAITHFUL seems to be the hardest thing to do for men, but CHEATING is easy because they don’t cheat because of who you are, they cheat because who they are not. Some men are not loyal, not honest and not aware of the consequences of their actions until the woman is one step out of their lives.
Cheating on a woman is deeper than people realize. Cheating can destroy a woman’s outlook on love, future relationships, and peace within herself. It takes a lot from a person and also from the person that has been cheated on. Men are very emotional beings and they carve affection and love like anyone else. They may feel unappreciated and insecure and this will cost a man to react in a cheating manner.
Don’t be afraid to praise your partner. Men love to feel loved and honored from their woman. Yes, it’s called stroking their egos, and it’s something that needs to be done on a daily basis. Men are emotional beings and of course they want you to appreciate them to the fullest.
Even though women are constantly hurt by the fact men cheat, below is a list of reasons woman choose to stay.
-The lying has stopped; they may feel the man is being 100% honest now
-Love; they are madly in love with the individual
-They blame themselves; they may feel they are the reason he can’t stay faithful
-For the sake of the children; they may have children and don’t want bring into the drama
-Not willing to give up a certain lifestyle; they are use to the way things are and don’t want things to change
The famous saying says, once a cheater always a cheater, but once I received guidance from another source, I learned that things can change. Speaking with my psychic advisor, I learned how to deal with the mistrust and the heartache and learned that it is their lost. Never beat up on yourself. Love yourself more and hold your head up because at the end of the day; there is always someone else better out there.
Men cheat because they don’t know a good thing because they never had one. Don’t waste time on a love life with man that don’t deserve it.